Written to the emerging adult directly: being an adult was never about the address; it is about having a real say in your own days, and your say can grow on any road. Your say is made of your space (a door people knock on), your time, your money, your work (paid or not, it counts), your people, and your helpers, chosen by you. Supported decision-making means you pick the people who help you decide and the decision stays yours. Choosing your family as crew is allowed, and it is one of the strongest choices there is.